How many times have we said that?
How many times SHOULD we have said it outloud but didn’t?
Well, I have failed, and if you’ve read any of my “recent” blogs, you might already know it. We all know that new year’s resolutions are “destined” to be forgotten, and pushed aside. Exercise plans come and go. Expensive equipment sits in the corner of the room and either has an enormous pile of clothing on them or so much dust that we wouldn’t put clothing on them. I recently purchased a house that has a nice “Universal Home Gym” in the upstairs that was left there by the previous owner. He spent a ton of money on it, spent 6 months putting it together, then sold the house, weight machine and all. For the record, no, I do not use it either, but that is a different story. I’m not talking about your average, every day resolution, and I’m not trying to beat up on the previous owner of my house either. I’m talking about the #ONEWORD approach. #ONEWORD was supposed to be different. #ONEWORD was supposed to be revolutionary. #ONEWORD wasn’t supposed to go the way of the stereotypical new year’s resolution. Afterall, I only had to focus on ONE SINGLE WORD, right?
Well, I failed.
#CONNECT was my word. I was going to #CONNECT with myself, my family, God, and my teammates at the office. #CONNECT was going to take me to the next level of “whateverness.” #CONNECT was supposed to be my revolutionary resolution. Well I think we all see how that worked out for me. So what does this mean really? How does this effect the grand scheme of all things “leadership” or “project management” or “family life” or “spiritual life?” To be honest, it has a huge impact. If I am not connecting, I’m actually disconnecting and that is simply unacceptable. In some cases, being disconnected can push people away, even those that are closest to us.
There is hope, though. You see, we have a chance every day to right a wrong. We have the ability to try again and to start over. Sure, things at home or work may be a little difference because of a failure, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that that those differences are bad. In fact, sometimes, you get the chance to make them even better. Think of a broken bone. When you break a bone, if properly re-set, it heals and grows back together even stronger than it was before. Our communication has that opportunity too. Take a moment and look at how you can reset your communication with those around you. I encourage you to look at any failure that you’ve encountered, and try again. Even if it hurts a little (pride or otherwise), you can make it better and be stronger than you were before. Tell your team that you’ve failed and that you vow to make it better. Check youself every day and try again. Don’t let a failure get the best of you or let it destroy the team you’ve worked so hard to put together.
Get up, dust yourself off, and go!
Happy second chances, my friend!! Thank you for reading.
How have you dusted yourself off? I would love to hear your story and your comments below.